The Value of Friendship

I watch, read, and listen to my friends in their blogs, and on Facebook, and it reminds me that even though we can express our thoughts every day, in every way (doesn't that rhyme nice), none of it matters much without feedback from our friends.  Friends are wonderful in so many ways:  they give us sustenance and support through difficult times, they give us confidence to face up to our weaknesses and fears, and they give us comfort when it seems that nothing else is available to us.  We may rely on our husbands and children for love and affection, but we rely on our friends for truth, honesty, and sometimes, just being there when everyone else doesn't seem to care.  So this post is all about.....friends....thanks.....you know who you are.....more than that.....you know who you could be....go out and be a friend today to someone who just might ask you a question and need a real honest answer....

The benefits of work.......

What a wonderful day--sunshine, 65 degrees, snow almost melted, and what did I do?  I sat in front of the computer working on budget spreadsheets.  But, as it happens, I feel really good about that.  I've been spending quite a bit of time this month (and last) working on paperwork for the Chorus I belong too.  When I got started at it, there was a tinge of resentment associated with it, but now that I am well into getting a (whole) lot of things organized, I have a different feeling.

I am accomplishing something concrete.  I am writing, thinking, computing, planning, strategizing, and organizing.  I have put a plan in motion, and I am following through.  Four hours of paperwork is translating into something I feel proud about.  Since I retired almost 12 years ago, I have had periods of intense activity, joining groups, spreading my "enthusiasm" around, and certainly taking things seriously.  But often those bursts of activity would give way to long periods of semi-activity.  I gave up quite a few things because I didn't feel the end result justified the amount of time I was spending on them.  But with that abandonment, there was also a relinquishing of the sheer pride in "work."

Of course, I have my quilting, and that is a creative activity that continues to bring me a lot of joy.  But I must admit that I am not so singularly dedicated to quilting that it can occupy me "24/7" as it were.  I need to exercise my mind, too, and not by just reading books and magazines.  Anyway, it's just nice to rediscover the joy in a few hours spent in contemplation, thinking through problems and postulating potential solutions, and just "staying in the box" for a while.  There was much I was more than happy to give up about work when I retired--the constant stress of worrying about jobs for people, contracts to be negotiated, personnel problems to solve, but I did miss the way that work flexed my "mental muscles."

Well, just some observations on the "retired" life and how it adapts and changes as we come to view things differently with age.  Having said that, and having finished a good day of "problem solving", I think I'll go have a glass of wine and plan dinner....

Just a Few More..........It was a Great Sewing Day!!

Well, since I can't seem to do this all at once, here are two more quilts that I finished up and are ready to be quilted today:

The first one is my "Spring in January" or "How I Fought the January Blahs" quilt--made with some gorgeous fabric samples that I got from my friend Peg Gorman:

The next quilt has been in the works for quite some time.  It's made with Civil War Reproduction fabrics, done in an old pattern called "Churn Dash" or "Hole in the Barn Door" or "Monkey Wrench."  It's made of indigos and cheddars, and the stripes in the sashing gave me fits.  (Note to friends:  please do not let me start working with stripes; having to cut out 84-inch sashing without deviating from the pattern is a pain in the "you-know-where.":

Here are four of the quilts I finished the tops on today:  My red/black/taupe star; my Dazzling Red and Green Dresden (still have two more borders to add); a contemporary quilt top I'm naming "Argyle" 'cause it reminds me of an argyle sweater pattern, and a Delectable Mountains table-topper.  There's two more to show, but I'm still struggling with getting everything into one post.  I have more work to do learning how to "blog"--at least I sort of know how to quilt.....

The "Border Wars"

Time to get back into "blog" mode, I think.  Where have the last few weeks gone---oh, I remember, I was mesmerized by snow for several weeks.  That prompted a continuous round of cooking, and then BK took over my life for a few days doing grant proposals.  But I've kept on working on my quilt projects, and have made a lot of progress.

My green and red dresden has evolved from unfinished blocks to an entire quilt set on point, with an alternating block of diamonds and focus fabric, and setting squares of diamonds and background fabric.  One border is one, and I finally broke down and ordered 3 yards of a beautiful tone on tone green to finish the bordering. (I had vowed I was going to only use fabric I had here, but artistic necessity overtook frugality on this one.)

I have made an interesting discovery in this process over the last few days--many of my quilts are languishing in a state of "disinterest" because I had no idea what I was going to do for either borders or sashing.  I really like to piece quilts.  I tend to find fabric I like, buy it, then find or think of a design, and then start creating the block.  Some people find a design, and then get the fabric to go with it, but I think I almost always am caught by the fabric.  However, since I start with fabric, and not a design, I often have no idea if I have enough of anything to finish what I start.  Or, I have to take it in stages.  Sometimes, just finding the right fabric can be a real battle.  However, today was "border wars" day.  I spent a lot of time with my friends over the last week or so discussing options; then decided it was now or never. I've shown some of my results below.  You can look over my following post and see how far I've come.

However, now I have to go make chili...........